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10 Tips on Finding the Best Surrogacy Agency



Finding an excellent surrogacy agency can be quite challenging, whether you're an intending parent or a prospective surrogate. This can be especially challenging when beginning this emotional and complex journey. We're here to provide a guide on how to discover the top-notch agencies and whittle things down to the single best one for YOUR surrogacy journey. 


Surrogacy is a sophisticated process. Hence, it's crucial to conduct thorough research before you embark on it. The internet is your companion! When you start, consider: 


* The different sizes of agencies (large, medium, small!)

* What they provide (their range of services)

* Their surrogacy philosophy (Does it resonate with what you envisage for your journey?)


By the time you decide to find an agency, it implies that you have decided to use a surrogacy agency for your journey. You comprehend the role a surrogacy agency plays and the significance of utilizing a surrogacy agency to manage your journey to parenthood. 


We've compiled this list of 10 tips to assist you as you steer your research.


1. PIN DOWN YOUR VISION FOR YOUR SURROGACY JOURNEY.


As you research, jot down your thoughts and expectations from surrogacy and the agency of your choice. Understanding what you expect from these two will guide your selection process.


2. PARTAKE IN CONVERSATIONS WITH OTHERS WHO HAVE BEEN THROUGH OR ARE CONTEMPLATING SURROGACY.





Luckily, you're not the first person to explore surrogacy as a means of expanding your family! Engaging with others who have experienced the process can provide you with various viewpoints and help you refine your search.


3. EXPLORE SURROGACY AGENCY WEBSITES.


Accumulate as much information as you can about a surrogacy agency from its website. This will give you a snapshot of what to expect.


4. RECORDED AGENCIES MATCHING YOUR CRITERIA.


After collating your expectations, match them with your findings about different agencies. 


5. REACH OUT TO SURROGACY AGENCIES AND SEEK CLARIFICATION.


Communication is imperative; contacting the agencies will give you a better sense of their compatibility with you. 


6. CONVERSE WITH PARENTS WHO HAVE UTILIZED THE SURROGACY AGENCY.


Discussions with experienced parties will provide insight into essential aspects like responsiveness, journey management, and challenge resolution.


7. MAKE SURE TO ASK 3 CRITICAL QUESTIONS ABOUT SURROGACY.


Ensure to ask about the agency's success rates, surrogate screening methods, and the definite costs of surrogacy.


8. MAKE A LIST OF PROS AND CONS.


After your research and discussions with agencies, draw up a list of pros and cons for each agency.


9. REFINE YOUR LIST.


Given the numerous agencies to choose from, reducing the list to a few top choices makes the process more practicable.


10. ARRANGE MEETINGS WITH YOUR PREFERRED SURROGACY AGENCIES.


Many agencies offer free consultations and meetings with the team.


POST-MEETINGS, WHAT NEXT?


After completing the research and meeting process, you should be able to identify one agency that stands out. 


The agency you select should align with your surrogacy philosophy, fit your budget, and meet your needs. Above all, it should feel right to you, not someone else. A surrogacy journey could last 18 months to 2 years (or more), so it's vital to get along well with the people you'll be working with.





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