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7 Myths About Gestational Surrogacy Debunked





Transitioning into the role of a surrogate is a significant commitment, and you might be curious whether it's the right path for you. In this article, we've outlined seven indicators to immediately connect you with the factors that resonate with the successful journey of a gestational surrogate.


1. You're Built for Family Life 

Dirty nappies, late-night feeds, tantrums – if you're proficient at handling them, it’s a strong sign you're made for this. At the heart of a surrogate's role is being a temporary caregiver to the child of the intended parents until it's time for the baby to enter the world. Exceptional surrogates find joy in being in the hub of family life and relish the caregiver’s role.


2. You're Detail-Oriented and Organized 

If you can manage your time successfully amidst a whirlwind of tasks, it's another excellent trait. A surrogate’s journey demands administrative work, including collating crucial paperwork at the onset, attending local monitoring sessions, and setting aside time for regular communication with intended parents.


3. You're a Go-With-The-Flow Type 

In this journey, adaptability is key. We often remind our surrogates and intended parents to expect the unexpected as much as possible. Instances may arise that no agency, surrogate, or intended parent can control. The developing little one determines the schedule, so a successful surrogate adapts and maintains a cool, can-do attitude.





4. You're in Good Health 

There are certain medical prerequisites before embarking on this journey as a surrogate. This includes maintaining a healthy Body Mass Index (BMI), a previous successful pregnancy, and maintaining a smoke-free environment. Your BMI shouldn't surpass 33, and surrogates must pass medical and psychological assessments.


5. You've Already Experienced Motherhood 

Our surrogate program prerequisites include having given birth to a healthy child within the past ten years. If you meet these criteria, you're just a step away from qualifying as a possible surrogate. 


6. You Have a Supportive Network Around You 

Surrogacy is a beautiful but demanding experience. One key element in successful surrogacy is having a primary support person who can stand by you, provide guidance, cheer you on, and simply be there when the going gets tough. 


7. You Believe Parenthood is for All 

If you passionately believe in the right for all to become parents, irrespective of their sexual orientation or marital status, you're ideal for this role. Our pro-family values are mirrored by our associated IVF clinics, surrogates, and egg donors. 


Do you identify with these characteristics and feel that surrogacy might be the way forward for you? Embarking on this path could provide transformative opportunities, much like it has for numerous women across the nation. Embrace your potential and take the first step on an impactful journey of surrogacy.
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